Daddy Love

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TODAY’S LOVE TOPIC:

Father’s Day is upon us so let’s dedicate a day to honoring those daddy and daddy figures who have made a special impact in our lives. Who is a daddy you love and admire? What constitutes the definition of a dad? More and more research has proven the importance of a father figure in a child’s life. In your opinion, why is this so valuable? Let’s show our daddies some love!

Hello, sweet lovers! Today’s love day is an extra special day for our daddies. I’ve read countless articles about the importance of a father figure in a child’s life. I subconsciously always knew this to be the case, but it’s not until we had our little Camdelicious that I have seen firsthand what this actually means. But even before Mr. ShuGar or Camden came along, there was one man who I have always loved. The original love of my life: My Daddy.

My daddy is my hero. I have learned how to love Mr. ShuGar through my dad. My daddy has jokingly repeatedly told me, “Don’t expect to ever find someone like your dad.” There is definite truth in his statement, but I think Mr. ShuGar has come real close.

What I have noticed with ShuGar Boy is that dads parent way differently than us mamas. Let me share an example. Our Camden Boy is encouraged to do lots of tummy time. Let’s be frank: He hates it. I tend to pick him up right away the minute I hear him express his discomfort. Not Mr. ShuGar! He encourages Camdie to keep going and not give up, despite its challenges. Because of Mr. ShuGar’s influence, our little boy now has pretty darn strong neck muscles and only cries after five minutes of tummy time.

I understand now my daddy was this way with me. He has always taught me to push myself, to not accept no for an answer, to strive for what I want despite life’s setbacks, and to forever believe in myself. This is the power of a daddy. The key to all these qualities is not what they taught us, but how. My daddy has given me this inspiration through love, and sometimes some tough love, but pure love nonetheless. At times, we have clashed because I like to believe we are similar in nature. Two minds think alike and also fight alike. 

The key to a great dad is supporting us with love so that we can develop to be the individuals we were meant to be. I have one memory of my daddy which still warms my heart.

I have consistently been a perfectionist, especially in school. I strived for A’s and have never been satisfied is I didn’t get what I wanted. I have studied hard and I am proud of what I have accomplished with my Master’s degree. However, I know I would not be in this current position with my career if my dad hadn’t sat down with me to help me with my homework. In one particular case in my freshman year in college, I got my first C. I was devastated, especially since it was in my English class since I have always been a lover of words. I cried to my dad, showed him my paper, and he said he would sit with me to help me improve. He not only followed through with helping me, but he continued to check up on my progress. Because of his love, I improved significantly and never ever got another C in writing again. Even as I write to you now, I owe that to my daddy because he is an excellent wordsmith and taught me the beauty of words.

As a recent mama, I can now look at how he hugs my Camdie and see how he loved me. It’s so touching. I captured the photo above when he was caring for his grandson. They look like twins! 

I’d like to dedicate this post to my daddy and Mr. ShuGar, who is a recent father and is doing an amazing job. When I see him hold Camden, my heart is so full and I know that my little boy will be as blessed with a loving father as I was.

Happy Daddy’s Day to all you incredible fathers out there!

TODAY’S DISCUSSION TOPIC:

Who is a daddy you admire? Why? Why are fathers so important in our lives? How have they made an impact in yours? Let’s show dads some loving!

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Photo credit: Carmen Garcia-Shushtari

 

  • http://lifebreathpresent.com LB Present

    Hun is a great father and dad to Baby Boy. As you noted, Hun and I definitely parent a bit differently, but not without love and understanding despite the differences. As for my dad. Today I can tell him I love him, without the pain, disappointment, and difficulty of our past. This year, I will lovingly make him a card for Father’s Day because of these changes. I’m grateful for both of these men, as without them I’d certainly be a different me and without the lessons and love I have in my life today! :)

    • http://shugarlove.com/ Mrs.ShuGar

      Thanks so much for sharing! It is beautiful to be able to share with the memories of our fathers. Yeah, fathers parent differently from mamas, and I’m glad they do. I’m sorry to hear that you had difficulties in your past, but I can definitely relate to that. I think as you get older you learn to forgive. I hope you had a beautiful Father’s Day with your loved ones.

      • http://lifebreathpresent.com LB Present

        I did! And it was oh so lovely :)

  • http://inspiremyfancy.blogspot.com Tania Franco

    I admire any dad that will leave work on a lunch hour, or somehow get away just to be there for their children’s little big moments. For example, recitals, or sporting events. I think having a father present makes it very meaningful for the child. A present parent makes a huge impact on a child’s life. Since my father died when I was 7, what I remember most about him was his playful side, and love for life. He made time for family fun. Fathers who take the time to spend with their kids are the best!

    xx,
    Tania
    http://inspiremyfancy.blogspot.com/

    • http://shugarlove.com/ Mrs.ShuGar

      I couldn’t agree more! Daddies making time for their babies is so valuable and makes a huge impact. I’m sorry to hear your daddy is no longer alive, but I know he still lives on in your heart. You are very lucky to have those memories of your daddy, like him making time to see you. So precious. Sending you hugs!

  • Fatima Lora

    Beautiful post! I love your line: “The key to a great dad is supporting us with love so that we can develop to be the individuals we were meant to be.” My father always accepted me for who I was/am, and I love him dearly for this. I know how you feel when you see your dad holding Camdie. I felt the same when my father would care for Sebastian. Sending love to you and your family this weekend. Hope you have a fabulous one :)

    • http://shugarlove.com/ Mrs.ShuGar

      Thanks, Fatima! You are blessed with a wonderful daddy. Glad you can relate to how it feels when I see my daddy holding Camdie. It’s love all around! So, so, beautiful to have this in our life. Hope you had a wonderful Father’s Day! Ours was lovely =)

  • Julie

    Great post! It’s great to have a special bond with your Father.

    • http://shugarlove.com/ Mrs.ShuGar

      Yes! So valuable and something money can never buy.

  • Jennice

    To me, the best father I know is my younger brother. He is 24yo and he has three children. Two of them are not biologically his, but he loves them and does everything a father is supposed to do. He has to jobs, and attends college full time. He is currently working lots of overtime so he can purchase a house that he can give to hi son when he is an adult. My brother didnt have his father in hia life, so its wonderful to see him become a wonderful father himself.

    • http://shugarlove.com/ Mrs.ShuGar

      Wow! He sounds like an amazing father. What a beautiful thing to do so much for his children, even if they are not biologically his. I wish him luck in purchasing that house. Sounds like he is a dedicated, hard working man. I admire that so much, especially since he didn’t have a father figure himself.